As a Psychic Medium I have lost count of the number of times that people have asked me what I think about money, and I'm sure that they're expecting a saintly answer about total rejection of all money and possessions; well they don't get one.
It is everyone's choice whether to live a very natural life that is mostly possession free and generally hand-to-mouth, or whether to live in this society as it is at the moment with its earning potential, taxes and social responsibilities that seem to cost so much. There is no right or wrong answer and in my encounters with the Spirit World I have found that they rarely mention money nor do they focus on it.
I feel that this is because they have money in perspective. We have chosen to incarnate into a material, physical world to deal with money and possessions. We didn't land up here by accident, popping out of the womb with the opening line "I'm sorry, I thought this was a mountain in Tibet, did I take a wrong turning?" Our intention was to land up exactly where we are.
Now, if you take a £20.00 note (or similar in your currency) put it on a table, weight it down with something and leave it there I can guarantee you that it won't start any wars, nor will it do evil. It is a piece of paper that will sit there until you or someone else picks it up and puts it in your purse or wallet.
Money is just an excuse for what certain people want to do in its name. Money is not and never has been the root of all evil, people are the root of all evil and there is no point us trying to blame gold, silver, diamonds, emeralds or paper money for the lengths we will go to have them - that is all about us.
Wars have been fought over money, lands and possessions because someone has wanted what someone else has but could not be bothered to go and get it for themselves, and then that someone else tries to take it back.
That isn't about money and possessions, that's entirely about us, and if you consider it for a moment you will perhaps realise that money and possessions are a good test for us to see how we are and how we're doing Spiritually.
We can use them as a measure of whether we're all take, all give, or nicely balanced. We can see whether we use the word kind or are kind by the amount we give to charity. We can note the effort we put into buying just the right present, and review whether we keep every penny for ourselves or do what we can where we can to help.
If we're constantly showing off our newest, latest 'whatever' then we probably have an ego problem. If we're constantly getting into debt to keep up with the Joneses then we definitely have a common-sense problem, not to mention an identity crisis. If, however, our possessions are about creating a comfortable happy home, and a future for our children, or they bring back memories of good times and the people who have given them to us, then they take on a whole new meaning.
As I said earlier, we chose to incarnate into western society and there is nothing loving and giving in holding our children back to fulfill our own personal need to be saintly. Children deserve every chance to make whatever they need to of their lives, whether that's priest or police officer, high-powered business person or charity worker. They have the right to the education to help them create their future. After all, it takes a fortune to succeed in politics and what if one day we earn truly Spiritual world leaders? Think about that.
The taxes we pay help to take care of the less fortunate members of our respective societies. They pay for schools, law enforcement, hospitals, care for the elderly, etcetera, and I have no problem in helping to provide for those causes. Let's be scarily honest, how many people would give if they weren't forced to? It's an interesting question isn't it.
I once told my husband - who is a business person - that business was the root of all evil. I am ex National Health Service and local government and I obviously have a great deal of respect for those organisations and the work they do to care for others. However, he pointed out that there wouldn't be any money to keep those organisations functioning if business didn't generate income for the country. It was an excellent point.
As a Spiritual worker I've obviously struggled with the subject of money on a personal level, and one day I gave up and asked my Guide about it. He said something like "We wish that every Spiritual person in the world were rich because you would know not to keep everything for yourselves." I must point out though that he didn't mean every Spiritual worker, you don't have to be a Spiritual worker to be Spiritual.
So you see, you don't need to be afraid of money or apologise for having it. We all have the choice in life to reach for the stars, be content where we are or be lazy. We all have the choice to work for others by giving our time or our money. Both are equally useful and equally to be respected.
I know that we don't always have the choice as young people, for instance my parents took me out of school at the age of 16 when I had expected to go to University. I won't go into the whys because that's old news, but the fact is they did and I began my working 'career' without a meaningful exam to my name. For years I struggled in dead-end jobs until I finally found a way to go to university and get the degree I had always wanted (and another one). It is true that my husband helped me, but I had signed up for the Open University before I met him so I was prepared to fund it myself.
Even if you aren't born with every advantage, your parents can't afford or don't believe in higher education, or you don't have an academic brain, that doesn't mean you can't make something of your life. Let's face it, needing a plumber or electrician can be costly!
Your life will be about whether you are ready to make something of it and your finances will follow. Your possessions will be about whether you show them off or love them because of who gave them to you. Your kindness will either be there on full display or it won't, and no amount of money or lack thereof will make one iota of difference to who you are.
So take the same approach as the Spirit World, get on with your life and look after others as best you can.
Wishing you happy days and peaceful nights
Deb
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